When the buyer says “I’ll take it” that’s when the accountant starts his work but for us in selling it begins way before that. But where does it begin? I’d like to tell you about an experiment I used at seminars, some years ago. I’d invite a colleague of mine to join me on the platform. He would walk on without uttering a word and stand before the audience. I’d ask the audience to describe my friend from the list below.
HONEST
SLICK
CONFIDENT
PROFESSIONAL
INTELLIGENT
UNEASY
SLY
IMPULSIVE
AGGRESSIVE
MARRIED
EXTROVERT
EMOTIONAL
COMPETITIVE
TRUSTWORTY
NICE
Some would describe him as honest, others as sly and yet more as trustworthy and some would describe him as competitive. What was amazing, and which I found fascinating was that everyone was able to make a judgement. Here were people, who were willing to make profound decisions about another and yet that person had said or done nothing.
You Are How You Look
The reality is we judge people all the time based on appearance and first impressions. So where does the sale begin? The sale is on before you ever open your mouth. We form impressions of others within 5 to 10 seconds of meeting them. The reason you don’t catch peoples names, having been introduced, is that you are too busy studying them. You haven’t enough time for names, you’re so focused on deciding, what they are, you didn’t bother about who they are.
And don’t underestimate the strength of these feelings. Maybe you go to the same bus stop every morning at the same time, and there is someone, who also catches the same bus every morning, someone you don’t know and have never spoken to but for some reason you just can’t stand them. In fact you have decided you hate them. Not hate, in that you’ll think about them beyond the bus journey, but enough for it to arise next morning when you see them again.
We judge people, we judge them instantly and we are merciless. And these judgements are based on little things, details. All sorts of little details, about you, and how you look. We judge people, places and even whole businesses on minor little things. As you go into a restaurant and you notice the glass door to be grubby, you’ve made up your mind.
Now I’m not going to bore you, or insult you by telling you about your hair or nails or any of that stuff. What I will say, is that at the beginning of the sale, the focus is on you, not your product. And it’s important, people buy people first. If they buy you, they will buy from you and if they don’t they won’t – if you get what I mean.
Don’t Be Too Obvious
However be careful of the overkill. I’ve already mentioned the salesperson with the over firm handshake, and don’t tell me that’s not common. Another one which is nearly always mentioned in selling books, and is also a victim of overkill is “maintain eye contact”. That explains all these salespeople going around with eyes out on stalks.
The classic example of the over obvious and phoney is the air hostess. You know the one, you have just landed after a long haul flight and the hostess who has been running up and down that plane for the last 10 hours is now positioned at the exit. As you pass she beams with a huge smile and says “have a nice day”. Now you and I know she’d sooner kick you down those steps than see you have a nice day.
The Talking Bit
Selling of course has to do with presenting – the talking bit. Your presentation as a salesperson must be planned meticulously. Now that might seem obvious to you, it’s certainly plain common sense to me. Yet it is astounding how many so called sales professionals will argue this one with you. They’ll say you can’t plan your presentation “sure all customers are different”, “you‘ve got to play it by ear “. What utter nonsense.
All customers are different but their concerns are generally the same. They are concerned about price, quality, reliability, all the usual things. Let me be absolutely clear about this, if you are selling a product for say two weeks, you are unlikely to be asked any question or hear any comment you have not already heard. After two weeks there will be few surprises, very few. Therefore it is only logical that you would plan your presentation. Just suppose you where a guest on “Who wants to be a Millionaire” and you knew the questions before hand, tell me now you wouldn’t plan your answers.
Remember in the selling situation you have about 5 minutes to make your mark. All that advertising, all that marketing, all that effort has one objective, to get you the professional salesperson in front of a live potential customer. Now you tell me you want to “play it by ear” – not likely!
How many times have you had a row with someone or an argument and you went away kicking yourself that you didn’t say this or that. Often I would imagine. In fact it is quite likely that you’d spend the rest of the day or indeed the week rerunning the episode in your mind. I’ve done it myself and when I retell the story, to anyone who will listen, I normally win the argument. That’s human nature I suppose. Believe me, for salespeople who do not plan their sales presentation they too rerun the sale and in the second version they always win the sale but of course it never appears on their sales figures at the end of the month.
It’s really funny when you think of it how some salespeople think. Take a salesman who is invited to do best man at a friends wedding. They will spend an inordinate amount of time preparing their speech. Books on speeches will be bought, hours spent in front of the mirror practising, further time boring their partner with “listen to this bit, do you think it’s funny?” And all to entertain a group of friends who have probably over entertained themselves at the bar before the speeches even began.
Yet the same salesperson who depends on presentations to put food on the table, educate their children and put a roof over their head just can’t be bothered to plan, they want to “play it by ear”. And I’ll give you a good one, those who practise the unplanned version normally end up with a consistent line of patter anyway, the only difference is theirs is ill considered, inadequate and unplanned. A planned and practised presentation will give the following distinct advantages.
ADVANTAGES OF A PLANNED PITCH
Confidence Builder
As you will know exactly what you are going to say, when you are going to say it and how you are going to say it you will feel and appear more confident. Remember our stuttering friend from earlier, who was invited to sing.
Feel Relaxed
As a fully prepared salesperson you feel more relaxed. You will be less anxious and as such avoid the temptation to talk too much, the graveyard for many a prospective salesperson. An anxious salesperson will not inspire confidence in a buyer and a buyer must have confidence in you, remember they are about to make a decision.
Attentive to your customer
As you will see a key selling skill is the ability to read your potential buyer. When you are struggling to think of what to say next you have limited opportunity to study your buyer.
All in all the often quoted saying of the salesperson “who fails to plan, plans to fail” is very true.



